Explore the Bible
March 18 2017
1 Corinthians 7:1-13 (CSB)
When God created marriage between a man and a woman in Genesis 2:28 He said it was “not good for man to be alone.” With this in mind Paul gave us some further thoughts on a healthy marriage in 1 Corinthians 7.
When Paul wrote the Corinthians sexual immorality was rampant in society.
To challenge the current thoughts of his day Paul said in 1 Corinthians 7:2 that “each man should have (sexual relations with) his own wife and each woman should have (sexual relations with) her own husband.” As simple as this sounds this was a radical idea as believers were faced with a barrage of messages coming from society not unlike what we often hear today.
How do we maintain a healthy and good view of marriage? Paul saw marriage as a God-given gift. One translation refers to the “gift” in 1 Corinthians 7:7 as a “grace-gift from God.”
When we view our marriages as a gift from God we are being who God has called us to be. When Paul wrote 1 Corinthians one of his goals was to show us what it looks like to be “called to be his holy people” (1 Cor. 1:1). God’s holy people view marriage as a gift from God.
Secondly when we view marriage as a gift from God we know we are not to “use” each other. Look at Paul’s train of thought in 1 Corinthians 7:2-4:
A husband is to “have his wife” and a wife is to “have her husband.” A husband is to fulfill his marital duty to his wife and a wife is to fulfill her marital duty to her husband.
He continued a wife has no authority over her body but her husband’s body and a husband has no authority over his body but his wife’s body.
When you view marriage as a gift from God you give to each other. You belong to each other.
Do you view marriage as a gift from God? Do you view your spouse as a gift from God? How has God shown you His grace in your marriage?